Travel experiences and dreams can tell you a lot about what someone prioritises and values in life. Maybe they’ll dash out for a quick run, stick on re-runs of Friends, whip up a batch of cookies, read classical literature or watch videos of laughing goats online.Whatever the answer, you can go on to find out why they find whatever they do interesting and see if their thinking matches with yours.
There's nothing like that quality time and intent in discovering the intricacies of the other person. But there is still so much we can learn about each other; so many ways we can still grow our intimacy through conversation. indulgence Beyond favorites, there's something about knowing if a person prefers a mac or a pc (for example) that can be so telling about personality and how they tick.
Feel free to adapt them to your situation and interests, and remember to actively listen to their responses to build a deeper conversation.
This often reveals the type of holiday your date appreciates and how adventurous they are.
If they’ve been asked the same question a thousand times before, it’s not as effective in engaging the person in your conversation.
And these are just a starting point; take these team-building questions and modify them to meet your needs and situation.