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Below are some of the reasons why victims/survivors may choose to stay or return to an abusive relationship. Don't Overlook This: The abuser is the person the victim/survivor .
The victim/survivor may want to end the violence, but also preserve the family relationship. Domestic violence is the cause of half of the homelessness in America's women and children. Many abusers are remorseful after abusing the victim/survivor.
They may also be bound by religious implications of marriage and there are many other reasons related to preserving the relationship to consider. Ending an intimate relationship is almost always difficult, but even more so when the victim's/survivor's self-confidence has been destroyed by abuse/r. This contrite behavior may include promising never to hit again, agreeing to seek counseling if the victim/survivor promises not to leave, reminding the victim/survivor of how hard the perpetrator works, pointing out the incredible stresses under which s/he is operating, acknowledging the wrongfulness of his/her violence to the children and asking their help in stopping it, and demonstrating his/her love for the victim/survivor in meaningful ways.
Believes the Myths about Domestic Violence Victims/survivors of domestic violence may assume that violence in an unavoidable part of their life. Since victims/survivors have often built their lives around the relationship, they hope for change.
Victims/survivors may also blame themselves for the violence as they are repeatedly told it is their fault by their abuser to the point that they become convinced of it and believes that it's their responsibility to "fix" it. When the abuser acknowledges the error of his/her ways, when s/he breaks down and cries and concedes the need for dramatic change, hope is often renewed for the victim/survivor. Many victims/survivors of domestic violence do not have a support system. For example, the abuser may prohibit the victim/survivor from using the phone, may humiliate him/her at family gatherings, may insist on transporting him/her to and from work, or may censor his/her mail, email, texting and cellphone records.