I think the days of secret "love children" are gone; he should man up and take responsibility, socially and financially if need be.
First off, I wouldn't get pregnant by a married man because I wouldn't be having sex with one.
Are you okay with sharing the rest of your life with his current family?
Dating someone who is married is hazardous and painful, not always but usually.
I recently found out that I am pregnant and I am very happy buy my only concern is that the father is married.
He is seperated from his wife but they have 3 young children including a set of infant twins.
I guess my question is has anyone ever been in a similar situation and how did it turn out.I am not looking to be put down, I know this isnt the ideal situation, I am a good mother to the child I already have and he is a good father to his children. It's hard enough to be pregnant when theres no extra stress involved.His wife knows he is with someone she just dosnt know that it is me like I said they are seperated with plans to divorce I just want some advice from someone who has been in this sitation before from either side! Just remember that this time right now is for you....he's trying to keep both of you around please be the bigger person Honestly is better you abort the baby, it will ruin ur life and his, and sorry for my words is fullish of u to date a married man, and he is a jerk! He doesn't want you to keep the kid because it will ruin his marriage/family but he doesn't want to lose you?? Don't do it because of someone else, it'll eat you alive in the long run.And he will never leave his wife Dont you feel bad for her?? He is not only a dog for cheating he's also a brainless idiot. if anything give it up to adoption if you really don't think you can handle it.If he didn't want this kid he would've wrapped his Willy and you would've took plan B. Since he doesn't want to be part of the baby's life will you have other supporters? they both knew what could possibly happen & it did!Can someone help you while you still go to college. but now that you made your bed :/ you have to think hard. They need to take full responsibility for their actions and go from there ..You stated that you want this “man in your life forever.” Know that if you move forward in this relationship (assuming he leaves his wife and family) that you will also have his family in your life forever.He will be forever connected to his current wife because of their children.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...